Thursday, March 18, 2010

2 more steps back

Main thing to report today is breathing has become very labored. Which I think is making him more anxious. They have him on a full oxygen mask now and are giving him Adavant for anxiety. As much as I wanted him awake for us, now I just want him to relax and rest and he cant. This just sucks more every day. I know God is in control but its hard not to be able to help the ones you love SO MUCH!! So ironic how he used to fight mother to wear her oxygen and now he is fighting to keep it on. Waiting on Dr Bergeron to come in. Not expecting much news from him tonight but always comforting to talk to him. Please continue to pray for a miracle and if it isnt Gods will for a miracle, please pray that the doctors can keep him comfortable. And pray for strength for all of his family that loves him so much. Thanks to all of you for everything.

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  1. I have the worst time getting my comments to post, so if this comes up twice, thats why...even though Frank appears asllep, he most likely is aware you are there and can hear you talk to hom..comfort and rest is very important right now...do whatever you can to help him relax..music, read to him...I praying really hard...love ya

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  2. You know that miracle will come on the other side, no more sickness, no more pain, this is what my Lord promises. The ideal of letting him know that you and your kids are going to be fine, is not easy to say but he needs to know that from you and i believe he knows your there and he understands what you say he just cant get his mind settled enough to let you know that. When i crawled in bed with my mom on march 4 1998 and held her close and whispered to her that i was with someone that loved me and my kids and that me and my brothers will take care of each other come what may. And that she had done such a great job with us, we could go on, on our on although it was going to be so hard we just could not stand to she her this way, please let go and stop suffering, It seemed like that was what she needed to hear and was waiting on, she settled down and with in a hour she was gone. You will always have that one more conversation and that one more piece of advise from him everyday you will recall this and know that this is what he would say and do. No one can understand where you are at right now, but you are not alone. love ya

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